Friday, May 8, 2009

child of mine

I logged into Facebook today, and the first thing I see is a status update from a friend of mine who is 38 weeks pregnant:

So ready to be done being preggo.

It seems like not that long ago I was commenting on her very first ultrasound photos and congratulating her on her pregnancy. She replied with a nice thank-you message, saying it had taken her and her husband nearly a year and a half to conceive their baby girl. She said she was at the point of total frustration when they got their BFP, and she wouldn't take this pregnancy, or anything that comes with it, for granted.

But it seems that, somewhere along the way, everyone who has trouble getting pregnant forgets this promise. Soon after, they are bitching about morning sickness. Or how they "really wish" they could have just one drink. They are upset when their clothes don't fit anymore, or when they can no longer wear their wedding rings because their fingers are too swollen. They are secretly disappointed when the sex of the baby isn't what they wanted or predicted. And they promise "no more kids!" with every contraction. They tell childbirth horror stories to women who are pregnant with their first (or trying to conceive their first), and bitch about not getting any sleep. They send out mass e-mails to their family and friends--with week by week updates on their child--along with at least ten photos of their baby doing pretty much the same thing in each one. (Because really, how many different ways can a baby look or pose?)

It will take a lot of dedication, but when I am finally blessed with that moment--that moment when those two little lines appear on that stark-white stick--I am going to try my very hardest to enjoy and savor every moment of my pregnancy. From the morning sickness to the cankles, it will be a life-changing experience.

And I can't wait to have it.

2 comments:

fourwhowantfive said...

I totally agree with you! And I'm sorry that you have to see/hear/read about people in your life who are complaining about the miracle that so many of us try so hard to get!

((hugs))

Ophelia said...

"Because really, how many different ways can a baby look or pose?"

HAHAHAHA!

So true!