Comments on from IF to when: fight on

I totally get why you would continue to blog about...

2011-11-25T21:58:01.395-06:00

I totally get why you would continue to blog about infertility even after adopting, IF does change you and the way you see the world. No harm in integrating both though!

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2011-11-21T22:47:57.853-06:00

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"If I stop blogging and talking about inferti...

2011-11-21T22:45:52.483-06:00

"If I stop blogging and talking about infertility, it perpetuates the myth that infertility ends when you have your child. Cancer survivors don't stop fighting for a cure once they are healthy.

So why should we stop fighting once we become parents?"

Excellent point. I do think the conversation changes, but it doesn't have to change topic.

I think you are a great voice for the community an...

2011-11-21T19:12:29.446-06:00

I think you are a great voice for the community and it would be wonderful if you continued to write.

Katie, As always beautifully said. You are a fant...

2011-11-21T19:06:29.266-06:00

Katie,

As always beautifully said. You are a fantastic writer and so classy.

xo
-K

That's awesome. I've been a Mom for two ye...

2011-11-21T18:35:48.981-06:00

That's awesome. I've been a Mom for two years and still haven't totally come to terms with my infertility. I think most people in similar situations feel the same way.

Don't worry about posting pictures of your kid though I find in most cases people are much creepier in our heads than in reality.

I think you should write about whatever is on your...

2011-11-21T10:56:42.292-06:00

I think you should write about whatever is on your mind and don't want you to feel like you "should" write about one topic or another. When you adopt if you want to start writing about that, that's cool. If you want to continue writing about infertility, that's cool too =)

I think it's awesome that you want to continue...

2011-11-20T20:45:24.407-06:00

I think it's awesome that you want to continue blogging about IF. It only makes sense, it is so very important to you.

I do know a fellow employee that I rarely worked with who was older and having trouble TTC really hit a nerve with me earlier in the year..

She laughed at me and said I wasn't infertile, because I had two children.

It almost made me

I started my blog two years ago to mete out my fee...

2011-11-20T20:08:14.417-06:00

I started my blog two years ago to mete out my feelings post ART treatment and pre-adoption efforts. I still post about infertility, I rarely post about parenting, but I do post about how having my son makes me feel in light of being infertile and in light of still struggling, four years later, to have a sibling.

You will find your way, but don't rule anything out. Evolution is

I just love you.

2011-11-20T19:21:51.193-06:00

I just love you.

LOVE!

2011-11-20T19:15:00.167-06:00

LOVE!

I've really tried to keep my blog about infert...

2011-11-20T19:14:34.760-06:00

I've really tried to keep my blog about infertility. Many days I fail, but I try to remember that infertility is the common thread to all of my readers, and that is what people care to read. Mommy blogging has never been my thing. I also wasn't all that jazzed about writing about pregnancy.

I hope you'll continue to write and not struggle with topics. I find that I feel