Monday, December 31, 2012

the rearview mirror

It's over. This year has come to a close, and I face this closing door with mixed emotions.

2012 was the best year of my life. It was the year I fulfilled my dream of becoming a mother. But it didn't come without heartache. I don't forget that just weeks before K's arrival, we were making plans on what to do with all of the items in our nursery. We were not going to renew our home study. We were going to live child free.

As I sit here now, staring at K who is asleep in her swing, I realize how lucky we are. How close we were to never achieving this joy. How close we were to leaving this journey behind empty handed.

I don't usually make resolutions for the new year. It's not in my nature. I feel that - in general - if I work hard at all that I do, I will feel accomplished. And that's still true. But if I were to have a resolution for this coming year, it's this: to push forward in helping others achieve their dreams of parenthood.

To stay active in the infertility community.

To remain an advocate for all of you who still await your miracle.

Because while I will look back on 2012 as a year filled with joy, I know that so many others will not. All of you will be in my thoughts as we go into 2013. May this be the year that your dreams finally come true.


Stefanie Blakely said...

You area an amazing advocate, Katie. I am so lucky to have you as my friend, in 2012 and beyond!

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Christina B said...

My husband and I are currently on the waiting list for our child. I'm so glad you had the chance to become a mommy before you gave up! God know when the timing is best and He will do all things in His own timing. I pray that my husband and I are able to experience the same joy in 2013! :)

someday-soon said...

You are such a beautiful person. I wish you and your family (and all our IF sisters) the best and brightest 2013 possible!

myinfertilitywoes said...

Thank you and happy new year to you!

The Cavallaro's said...

Just stumbled across your blog and I am SO excited that you fullfilled your dream of becoming a MOMMY! What a wonderful year that you had (even if it did have some bumps along the way!)