Thank you all so much for the advice and encouragement. I haven't quite decided what we will do about the choice in medications yet. Joey and I didn't really have a chance to talk about it last night. I have a direction I am leaning toward, but my final decision probably won't come until after we meet with the doctor.
We did have a chance to talk about IVF. We came up with a loose plan in case things get to that point. But for right now, we are going to stick with doing 3 IUIs before we move on. It makes more sense for us financially and my doctor said he "wasn't discouraged." He said "it's just a matter of getting the best possible sperm up to meet your egg(s)." So there we go. Maybe the IUIs will work. If they won't, we'll deal with it when we get there, but at least we have an idea of how we can pull some money together to pay for it.
One way or another, we will conceive a child in 2010. This is my goal. I've never been a person who gives up easily or throws in the towel. When I see something I want, I go after it. I am determined to make this happen. I cleaned the dog shit off of my new shoes, and they are still fabulous. Sometimes, you just need to step back and regroup to make things look bright again.